Why dominants don't chase you!!  

Sorry for my horrible voice, I have a cold.

Answering a listeners question about being clingy and needy.

Are you a "save me" submissive?  

What are we communicating when we are not talking??  

(and a little bit on how I talk politics with Sir Redemption)

Featuring Dawn from The Erotic Awakening Podcast gives her thoughts on what it means to be a Fearless Submissive.

Catch Dan and Dawn on the Erotic Awakening Podcast!!  

Knowing your anger.  What makes you angry and how do you handle it?  (AKA when Julie got really angry but didn't completely lose her shit.)  Sorry about the loud background, I must have been driving next to a big truck!!!   

julieR's thoughts on balancing your life and self care.

Musings from the Los Angeles GrUE V.  

Photo taken at the Pancake Breakfast.  

Priorities.  Realizing that I was so busy taking of care of things that I stopped making time for Him.

How to deal when you don't like your Dominant's other partner.  

Welcoming back Star to the show to talk about her upcoming Submissive Bootcamp as well as her upcoming podcast DarkStar Kink!!!

Submissive Bootcamp, Class 1

Dark Star Kink Podcast

julie_R talks about adapting to the changes in her life.

julie and Star talking about your limits and your Dominants limits.  Also, what is a no-limit slave?  

Sitting down to talk to Starkraving.  The long path to slavehood.

House Ravynblood

JulieR talks about role play.  Her Daddy/little girl play with Sir Redemption and how that has grown over the years.  Ways to introduce role play into your relationship and things to watch out for.

What happens when things stop being kinky?  

Just catching up.

Random and fun!!

Sir Redemption and I just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.  This show hits topics like M/s and BDSM, porn, new relationship energy, loopholes, intent and whether or not Sir Redemption is an "angry guy."  

Serviceslut joins me to talk about negotiations.  

This podcast contains portions of the book SM 101 from Jay Wiseman.  Published by Greenery Press. Copyright 1998.

Part 2 of Episode 55, Consentual nonconsent, power exchange and obedience

julie_R, SirRedemption and serviceslut talk about consentual nonconsent, power exchange and obedience.

This is the first part 1 of 2 part episode.

This week I talk to Graydancer- kink performer, educator, writer and "rope guy extraordinaire" as well as the facilitator for the GrUE which can be found just about anywhere these days.

I talk to Graydancer this week about something a little unexpected- long distance relationships!!  

Graydancer

Ropecast

Love.Life.Practice

This week the show was hijacked by Service Slut.  She decided to interview julie_R this week and ask her questions about relationships, 2015 and the Los Angeles GrUE.  

A last minute episode since my other recorders got jacked up!!!  GrUE, Holidays and Needs and Wants for the New Year!  

Los Angeles GrUE coming up January 16-18.

Orchid and Serpent

Saint Leather Toys

Violet Wand Store

S-types like to complain, but what happens when we bad mouth our Dominant?  What message are we putting out there?  

Lee Harrington joins me for my 50th episode!!  We talk about submission, safewords, and the things we carry with us through our journey.  

Check out the Passion and Soul Podcast

Lee Harrington's Website

Check out more awesome shows on the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network.

Brats and Manipulation.

SirRedemption and SarahMary join julie_R for a talk about bratting and manipulation.  What is bratting good for?  When has it gone too far?  

 All about sex toys!!!

This week I talk to Dangerous Lilly, sex toy expert!!  This is a great episode about vibes, dildos and the materials that are safe for your body.  Check out the links for the companies and items we talk about.

Lilly's Website

SheVibe

Tantus

Jopen

Lelo Smart Wand

We-Vibe Tango

Unplanned drivetime post about affirmations.  Why I think it's important to be able to find love and confidence from yourself!! 

Be sure to check out the new IOS App.  Android app is forthcoming.  

Catching up with Sparkle.  She and julie_R talk about our online persona, talking to Dominants and why is it that when our Dominant isn't looking we are tempted to run amuck??  Also, how many dicks is too many?  

Humiliation and degradation.  Talking with ServiceSlut from the Intellectual Kink Podcast. 

Be sure to check out ServiceSlut and Insidious Muse bi-weekly at SkidRow Studios.

Welcome back!!! 

This Episode with Sarah_Mary with SirRedemption acting silly and adding commentary.  Masochism, Humiliation and the good ways to meet new people. YMMV.

Check out the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network for great kinky and sex positive podcasts!!  

Thank you for comments and emails I have recieved.  

Yes I will be back in September.  Just taking a break for the summer.  

I'll be back the first week of September as part of the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network which is pretty exciting for me.  This won't change how you find or listen to me.  I'll have a new ad at the beginning of the show, but it's only 10 seconds long and it's for a podcast that you should be listening to anyway!!!

In the meantime, have a great August!!!

Much love,

julie_R

I was asked what makes a good Dominant.  In this episode I discuss my past Dominants and what made them good for me, and why. 

julie_R shares her thoughts about accountability in a power exchange relationship.

Sparkle joins julie_R and they talk about some of the common myths about submissives.

SirRedemption and julie_R sit and talk about ending a D/s relationship.  How to know when it's time to go.  

Sparkle and julie_R have a fun show.  Talking about having fun with your Dominant.  It's not all just sex and beatings, although we talk about that a lot too!!!  

tags: BDSM, kink, Dominant, submissive, Master, slave

Sir Redemption and julie_R talk about love.  How it relates to thier M/s relationship and why it's important to keep love and other emotions in the proper perspectve.

tags: Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, kink, BDSM

A whole lotta stuff... communication, sports, shoes.  Just SirRedemption and julie_R talking and having a good time.

just a quick burst of brain from me

SirRedemption and julie_R talk about the Los Angeles GrUE 3.  

What a Dominant looks for in a submissive.  Sir Redemption gives his thoughts on what he feels makes a good submissive.  

Happy New Year!  

Dominants and weight loss.  Is it acceptable for a Dominant to tell thier submissive to lose weight?  

SirRedemption joins julie_R to talk (for a long time) about the past year.  Some changes, some challenges, and new things to come.  Enjoy it!!

Dealing with disappointment.  

Straight talk on poly.  The things I struggle with.  

julie_R talks about dealing with drama in the community and how not to let it effect your experience in the BDSM lifestyle.  

Pet comes back with some questions for julile_R and SirRedemption.  

Part 2 of julie_R talking with Miss Pet about her experience with 24/7.

Part 1 of a 2 part episode with Miss Julie (EriksPet) about her experience with 24/7.  

julie_R talks about obediance, transparency and consistency and making the decision to stop making excuses and actually DO what we've agreed to do.  

julie_R and Ishtara talk about attitude!!  The times that you just feel funky and off balance.  How to get out of your own head and back into the game.  

A hodgepod episode with julie_R and Ishtara.  

I'm back!  Sparkle joins julie_R to talk about jealousy.  The hows and whys of it.  

Slavery for the rest of us.  It's hard to be a "good slave" when you have a busy life.  julie_R talks about where she struggles and how she manages to get it done.  

The Dominant Show.  Guests Insidious Muse and Service Slut join SirRedemption and julie_R for a talk about the challenges to being a Dominant.  Expectations, pressure and when D-types want to just ditch it all.  

julie_R visits with slave panda.  With her Master, she shares the Southern Califormia Leather Master/slave title.  They talk about the competition, a recent reality show special and the challenges of managing her time and being in a poly household.    

julie_R talks with DaddysBratty (Hayde) about getting over fears about being naked in the dungeon.  

julie_R talks about meeting new people. finding play partners and submissive safety.

Part 2- julie_R, SirRedemotion and DaddysBrattty talk about poly.

julie_R talks with one of SirRedemptions submissives, DaddysBratty about thier relationship, being poly, and managing changes.

julie_R talks to sparkle about being monogamous and having a polyamorous Master.  

Another drive time episode about things to think about BEFORE you decide to move in with your Dominant and live 24/7.

julie_R talks with SirRedemption about protocols and service.  

julie_R talk about self care.  Why it's important to take the time to care for yourself to better care for your Dominant.

Sorry for the weeklong break.  Life happens.  

In Episode 11 we talk about fetishes.  Kinky, naughty, rare  and some that are pretty common.  Lots of shenanigans as there was drinking involved, but a good time.  

In Episode 10 julie_R talks about obedience, mindfulness, expectations and the times when being a submissive is challenging.  

julie_R talks about topping in a scene.  

julie_R sits down with her friend Pet and they talk about first impressions of the BDSM lifestyle, the first trip to the dungeon, and the first time you get into trouble as a submissive.  Pet also shares her thoughts on subspace.

Somewhat of a WTF episode that talks mostly about play scenes in BDSM.  slave julie and Sir Redemption share thoughts on his favorite type of play- FEAR.  

julie_R sits down and talks with Sparkle about her struggles with NOT being a masochist.  

Taking with Ishtaria this week.  She asked me questions about M/s, poly and being the alpha.  Rest assured, there's no VETO card here.  If you enjoy the shows- be sure to rate and review it on iTunes!!  

Sitting down with Sir Redemption again, we talk about discipline and punishment.  

julie_R talks about needs, wants and requirements.  

Talking to my Master, Sir Redemption.  We sat down and talked about how we got together.  Ahhh memories.  We also touch on submissive fears and how he helps me get past my fear of the BELT.  

Intro music is Snow Globe by The Brady Bastards.

Welcome to the first episode of The Fearless Submissive.

In the episode, _Sparkle_ and I talk about the awesomeness that was the LA GrUE 2.0, the month of "yes", and how we both aspire to be The Fearless Submissive.

It's my first recording and after HOURS of editing, I just have to let go of the fact that it's not going to be perfect for a while!!  Please forgive the weird echo's and such.  It will get better.  Give me some time and I'll have cool intro and exit music and all the bells and whistles, but for now- I was just really excited to get started.

Thanks for listening!!

-julie_R